Sunday, June 20, 2010

Washington's National Cathedral: Dean Sam Lloyd and Guest Lisa Miller Discuss Heaven



Washington's National Cathedral had a wonderful service this morning. Two hymns were especially beautiful today: "Dear Lord and Father  of Mankind" by Repton, and the Michael music " All My Hope on God is Founded." They inspire me to make a list of my favorite hymns; that would make a nice project. I prefer those old ones.

Earlier, before the service at the Sunday Forum hosted by The Very Rev. Samuel T. Lloyd III, the discussion was all about Heaven with visiting Newsweek Religion Editor, Lisa Miller. She talked about "How Our Conceptions of Heaven Influence Our Lives." Her book is called "HEAVEN: Our Enduring Fascination With The Afterlife."

On June 6, 2010, an important Forum discussion was with The Rev. Thomas G. Long, an author of many, many books such as one about challenges facing preachers in Preaching From Memory To Hope  and about sickness and funeral customs  in Accompany Them With Singing. This Forum conversation should be listened to by every clergyman, in my humble opinion. The Forum is called: "Living and Dying: Why our Christian Rituals Matter."

These Forum discussions  are great online, live or later, even if I don't always write a review of them. They are important conversations about life, religion, God, and so much more. Dean Sam Lloyd has a gentle way of guiding the discussion with calmness to a wonderful warm place.

It is a privilege to be able to listen to the services and Forums here in the comfort of my own home near Princeton, New Jersey, over two hundred miles away from the Capital. Please give generously, as the Cathedral needs money to fight hunger in the Capital, and to follow through with promised social programs.

The beautiful music of the Cathedral, especially when played by the excellent Organist Scott Dettra, could be made into CDs. I notice there are CDs out there of favorite hymns.  Of course, I wish his special organ recitals could be played online, as well.

The Rev. Canon Carol Wade announced her departure intention, as had The Rev. Canon Stephen Huber, leaving the National Cathedral with a few vacancies to fill. I have every confidence Dean Sam Lloyd will find suitable replacements in time, although they have been extremely fine preachers.

Washington's National Cathedral is my favorite place to watch live online when it's time for religion at all times of the year. It's also an important location to support with thousands of visitors each year.



Monday, June 14, 2010

Training a Child Quickly in One Weekend

Here are some time-tested suggestions to help train your child. Life gets easier after the diapers are off and everyone can finally relax. Just look ahead and think of how soon your little genius could graduate from Princeton. Every kid has to do this!

1) Most important: listen to your child. Your child will  show readiness and let you know when  it is time to take off diapers. You will notice a consciousness over actions in many ways. A child won't rush to take diapers off, so it's time to gently assert and suggest. Don't even think  of taking a child off diapers before evidence of muscle control is clear, except as a dream. That would be a losing battle.

2) When it is time to potty-train, plan a quiet weekend a little ahead in which this will be your major focus. Admittedly, it will not be your most public event of the year, but if done with sensitivity, potty-training generally can be initiated, if not fully achieved, fairly quickly, in an evening, day, or weekend. The most important aspect is the bond of understanding the child needs to make of the connection between the urge and the action.

3) Before the weekend, prepare the child by explaining your plan, and showing what will happen in steps. Doesn't hurt to give a child time to get used to the idea.  A small plastic seat placed on top of a toilet seat is helpful to a baby.

4) Let your child know the most important thing in this designated special weekend for all of the family will be potty-training. (This may take some creative truth-stretching)...

5) When the promised and planned weekend comes,  discuss the topic and perhaps dramatically cast aside those diapers  for the child. Stay close to the potty at all times, at least for a few hours, to provide security and assistance so that your child's requests will be heard and followed. Be sure the baby realizes the connection between not having diapers and aiming into the potty.

6) Praise your baby profusely, with any signs of success. Celebrate after it's done, and the training is successful.  You all will deserve it.

It's enough to make me wonder who needs potty training more, the parents doing the training or the babies trying to help the parents training them?

Please comment or email and let me know if these suggestions worked for you...


Saturday, June 12, 2010

New West Wing Blog



In case you have wondered whether you could trail the President more closely, read his new blog now online called "The White House Blog." It's going to show video highlights of the President's days in office.

The White House Blog should make a wonderful historical record as well as a wonderful site to visit anytime for official information. On the site are links to other White House blogs run by government councils and offices, as well as links to breaking news issues, such as the oil spill. It also has a direct search of the White House website with the Saturday address and so on, WhiteHouse.gov, and links to photo sites, podcasts, live streams, press briefings, historical sites, current issues, and offices of the administration.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Jane Fonda On How Car Scenes Are Filmed

Have you ever wondered how car scenes are made in movies? Jane Fonda is in Paris to act in a French movie called "Et Si On Vivait Tous Ensemble" . Luckily for us, she is leaking open secrets in her blog of which I am a fan. Here she explains how it's done:

"I wanted to show how we shoot car scenes…with the car mounted on a flat bed , the cameras attached in front and the whole is being pulled by another truck. This isn’t the only way to shoot car scenes but a common way, and, in our case, essential because [actor] Guy Bedos doesn’t drive."







Photos: Jane Fonda
http://janefonda.com/category/my-blog/